رفتن به محتوا Orgasm Odds
Approximately 10% of women have never had an orgasm from any type of stimulation. Their situation is definitely different from a woman who has had orgasms.
If a woman has not had an orgasm ever, is often decreasingly interesting to that woman. It’s like going to a movie and leaving the theater ten minutes before it ends — every time. You would stop going to the movies after about 100 or more visits — probably sooner than that!
I don’t have any statistics on women who never masturbate, but I’m willing to hazard a guess. Since about 10% of women have not had an orgasm, we can count them in (maybe 9% for those who try to masturbate but don’t reach orgasm).
And, in my clinical practice, I have encountered a small number of women who are orgasmic with a partner, but do not masturbate. I’m willing to add another 10% to the number from that. So, my clinically based guess is about 19% give or take a few percentage points.
I don’t know what the percentage of women is who do not enjoy receiving oral stimulation from research. But, I’m willing to form a guess based on my 23 years in this field. I would estimate about 20% of women do not enjoy it. The reasons for this are all over the map: “I’m dirty down there,” “It feels too intense,” “I don’t like kissing my own genital smells when I kiss my partner,” “It’s too personal,” — to name a few.
As I write, there are probably researchers working on these issues. If you are a woman falling into the categories I’ve described, I hope you will think this through and seek help through couples’ therapy.